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Where to Begin.....Where to End...what to focus on....

Posted 06/23/2010 at 10:50 PM by superkat

[FONT="Palatino Linotype"]As some of you know, I have a very rare disease called Takayasu's Arteritis. In fact, I'm the longest living survivor of this bizarre thing that is registered with NORD (The National Orginization of Rare Diseases). It has no cure, and is considered terminal...unless you get lucky...or just happen to be SO STUBBORN that you don't let it get you. I think I am probably both. I was diagnosed with it shortly after open heart surgery in April of 1996. Technically, I should have died in 1998, but because of an intense regieme of chemotherapy they were able to stop the progression until 2001. And then it got very bad. At that point, they had tried everything to keep it at bay, but eventually, it regained a foothold on my internal blood system and they gave me 2 years. One good, one bad. Chemo stopped, thank God, because at 5' 8", 112lbs was not the least bit healthy and I had zero energy. This is not as important as what I'm about to share.

RENT, the musical I am working on right now, opened at the Nederlander Theater in NYC on April 29th, 1996. It is based on Puccini's Opera, La Boheme, but TB was replaced by AIDs. Now, I did not have AIDS, but I did have an immune system disorder...although TA is the EXACT opposite of AIDs. Instead of having an immune deficiency, my immune system was over active. The reality of TA is that your own immune system believes that your arteries, specifically the ones coming from the heart, including the aorta, are an infection, and your body sends out the word to get rid of it. My artificial aortic valve was the result of the tissue being eaten by my own white blood cells. So....when i went to see RENT, I had no idea on how much of what was being acted out on stage would relate to my own struggle with a terminal illness. RENT changed my life.

There is part of one song that states, "to people LIVING WITH, not DYING FROM disease." And clearly drove home that everyone, regardless of their health should live their lives with the mindset that there is, "no day but today".

It taught me to forget regret, or life was mine to miss...and that you should measure your life in love. There are 525,600 minutes in one year. And each one of those minutes should be spent wisely and not thrown away.

For the next 14 years following my first attendance to the broadway production, RENT became THE REASON for going to NYC. I can't tell you how many times I have seen the production, for honestly, i've lost count.

This will be the second time I have been fortunate enough to stage manage this show. And now that we are in the theater, and we are running it, scheduled to open on July 17th (btw, the cast and crew will be in the Gay Pride parade that day), all of the emotions are resurfacing...and along with that...the absolute NEED to refocus my life and start living the way I did before I went into remission. Who knows how long that will last...and I must not forget that life is a gift...one that I often neglect.

There are many many people in my life that are SO VERY IMPORTANT TO ME. Sometimes, I find myself holding back what is in my heart because some people just don't receive gushes of love well. The thing is, THAT IS WHO I AM. And tonight...I decided that I can't hold that back any longer. If we are truly to live and measure our life in love, then the song is TRUE. You must forget regret. I can't control my destiny. My only goal is just to BE.

So...prepare yourselves, my reefer friends. The flood gate has been opened. What a shame it would be if tomorrow i woke up and found that I was where I was in 2001. For an idea of what that was like, let me list:

- my vision was almost gone. I could only see directly in front of me, and I could barely distinguish colors.

- my balance was sporadic. there would be times that i would just fall over with little or no notice.

- i had no sense of touch. i could not understand the word "texture", and could not feel water on my hands.

- i had to sleep sitting up, or i could not breath.

- i had 2 good days a week, where i could actually eat, or get out of bed, the rest of the time was in a chemo induced state of lethargy.

- on those 2 good days, i was getting chemo, or in a doctors office.

- i could not get warm if i was cold, and could not cool down if i was hot.

I can tell you...I was DYING for years...and could feel that every day.

It wasn't until RENT that I started seizing each and every good moment...minute...second...and embracing people, places, things and stopped taking my life for granted.

I've become numb over the last few years. Numb to my own existence. That stops TODAY....RIGHT NOW.

I encourage each of you...if you can...PLEASE COME SEE THIS SHOW if you have never seen it. Come prepared. I have yet to see a dry eye at any performance.

JCC CenterStage, Rochester, NY. Look up the website. Buy a ticket. We will sell out each and every performance.

If nothing else...remember that we have a LIFE that is worth living...and how we live touches those around us in profound ways.

Find one song...a song that rings true...make it your own...and share it.

Peace.
Kat
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    ROGER
    I'm Writing One Great Song Before I ...
    One Song
    Glory
    One Song
    Before I Go
    Glory
    One Song To Leave Behind

    Find One Song
    One Last Refrain
    Glory
    From The Pretty Boy Front Man
    Who Wasted Opportunity

    One Song
    He Had The World At His Feet
    Glory
    In The Eyes Of A Young Girl
    A Young Girl
    Find Glory
    Beyond The Cheap Colored Lights

    One Song
    Before The Sun Sets
    Glory - On Another Empty Life
    Time Flies - Time Dies
    Glory - One Blaze Of Glory
    One Blaze Of Glory - Glory

    Find
    Glory
    in a song that rings true
    truth like a blazing fire
    an eternal flame

    Find
    One Song
    A Song About Love
    Glory
    From The Soul Of A Young Man
    A Young Man

    Find
    The One Song
    Before The Virus Takes Hold
    Glory
    Like A Sunset
    One Song
    To Redeem This Empty Life

    Time Flies
    And Then - No Need To Endure Anymore
    Time Dies

    (A knock at the door)

    The Door
    Posted 06/25/2010 at 12:22 AM by superkat superkat is offline
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    NO DAY BUT TODAY

    The heart may freeze or it can burn
    The pain will ease if I can learn

    There is no future
    There is no past
    Thank God this moment's not the last

    There's only us
    There's only this
    Forget regret-- or life is yours to miss.
    No other road
    No other way
    No day but today

    There's only yes
    Only tonight
    We must let go
    To know what is alright
    No other course
    No other way
    No day but today

    I can't control
    My destiny
    I trust my soul
    My only hope
    is just to be

    There's only now
    There's only here
    Give in to love
    Or live in fear
    No other path
    No other way
    No day but today
    Posted 07/02/2010 at 05:46 AM by superkat superkat is offline
 

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